Every year when the holidays roll around, I get a little bummed out about our family’s lack of annual Christmas traditions. Moving as often as we have, we’re continually reinventing the wheel when it comes to celebrating the holidays: different people, different places, different decorations, different spaces.
We do plenty of fun and festive things each Christmas, but it’s always…different. Even during the years when we’ve stayed in one place, sometimes our schedule or budget prohibits us from doing things we’ve enjoyed in years past.
I can’t help but feel like I’m missing out when I see others’ annual Christmas parties, annual shopping outings, annual trips to see The Nutcracker, holiday teas, cookie swaps, and annual Christmas Eve dinners.
I would love to automatically block off certain dates every December for something that “we always do,” instead of staring at the squares of a blank calendar and trying to fill it with things that will hopefully make the Christmas season feel special and memorable for my kids.
But when those feelings strike, I stop and think about some of the holiday traditions I remember most from my own childhood:
- Sharing a room with my brother on Christmas Eve and listening for the reindeer’s hooves on the roof…
- My Grandma’s raisin cookies and my Grams’ sand tarts…
- The Lifesavers candy book in my stocking every year….
- The glow of the plastic candle in my bedroom window…
- Searching for the perfect tree…
- Singing “Silent Night” at church in the dark…
When I reflect on these memories, I realize how simple traditions can be. Traditions don’t need to be spectacular to be memorable.
Yes, it would be fantastic to have an annual family tradition of ice skating at Rockefeller Center, followed by hot cocoa in Times Square and a visit to FAO Schwartz. But the only thing required to create tradition in your family is to do something over and over again, year after year.
It’s the sameness and repetition that creates an unforgettable tradition, and there are lots of traditions you can start today and carry on throughout the years, regardless of where you live, how much free time you have, or how much money you have to spend.
10 Simple Christmas Traditions:
- Vote on your family’s favorite Christmas cookie recipe and make it every single year.
- Choose a night to drive around and admire the best Christmas lights in your neighborhood, or visit a neighborhood that’s known for its beautiful light displays.
- Read “T’was the Night Before Christmas” or another Christmas book as a family together every year on Christmas Eve.
- Make or choose an annual ornament for your tree that represents something you did or enjoyed as a family that year. Include the date so you can look back at all the ornaments from years past.
- Start a collection of themed decorations (ie: Santas, deer, or gingerbread men) so that you have something fun to hunt for when you’re out and about during the holidays.
- Watch the same holiday movie together as a family every year, complete with popcorn and hot cocoa.
- Play a fun board game or gift exchange game on a night before Christmas (this is a fun idea I found online).
- Pack up cookies or other treats and deliver them to neighbors.
- Make scent memories by burning the same holiday candle year after year, or making stovetop potpourri throughout the season.
- Decide on a special appetizer or other dish that you only make on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day; or create a special Christmas breakfast that you make every year.
If you’re looking for more ideas, just spend some time thinking about the things you remember and loved most about the holidays when you were a kid. Chances are, the memories that stuck weren’t necessarily the most elaborate or expensive events. It’s the tradition of doing something over and over again that ties you together as a family and creates the memories you’ll look back on and cherish (or at least laugh about).
I’d love to hear about your favorite holiday traditions, and maybe pick up some new ideas. Please share in the comments!